Gender Selection--How to have a Baby Girl
Q: We have two boys and now we want to try for a baby
girl. There is so much confusing information that I've read and heard
about gender selection and the ways to do this--can you help?
Dr.Moore: Questions from readers on methods of gender
selection, about how to have a baby girl or baby boy are some of the
most common inquires I receive. It's good to know there are so many
couples trying to make babies no matter what the sex! Most everyone
know the ways to make a baby, but if you want to know how to have a
baby girl, you must start with an understanding of the basics
behind the process.
There is only one type of egg, an “x”, but two types of
sperm: the x-sperm (which makes a baby girl) and the y-sperm (which
makes a baby boy) The basis of natural gender selection arises from
the knowledge that there are factors that will favor the x-sperm over
the y-sperm. These influences include timing of ovulation, positioning
during sex and vaginal Ph (acidic or basic). There may possibly be an
influence from the diet in the month prior to conception but most agree
it is a minimal factor in gender selection.
Applying the methods of natural gender selection are easy when a handbook
is followed--such as the one we wrote--"Baby Girl or Baby Boy--Choose
the Sex of Your Child". The details of these methods, can be applied
each month while trying to conceive--which is why one needs an easy
to read manual for reference. Although some get pregnant fast, most
couples take three to four months to conceive. No matter how hard you
try, it may take up to twelve months to get pregnant and this can still
be considered within the norm (if you are not getting pregnant within
a twelve month time period you should see your OB/GYN ). One of the
most important tasks is to determine your ovulation date and how accurately
you do this will increase your success.. Women with a more regular cycle
and consistent ovulation date will have an easier time with this aspect.
While many couples desire balanced families and natural gender selection
is one of the best ways to accomplish such, every infant represents
a gift--whether a baby girl or baby boy.
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